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THE GOMEZ FAMILY

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Gomez Family, Trinidad

Picture taken on the day of Elsie's engagement to Charles Sheppard -  1907
l/r: George, Edith, Elsie, Charlie Sheppard, Joseph, Audrey, Vincent.
Centre: Joseph (Joe) Gomez & Christina (Pereira) Gomez
Front: Ivy & William.

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The family photo shown above was sent to my grandmother Elsie Gomez by her uncle Joe Pereira, by way of a postcard.  This is the back showing Elsie's address and a note from Joe.   He was a photographer who owned and operated Pereira Studios in Tuscon, Arizona.  Post stamps show it was mailed in Chicago 31 October 1907 and reached Trinidad 15 November 1907.

Joseph Gomez was born on 13 October 1863 in Port of Spain, Trinidad. So far we haven't been able to confirm Joseph's parentage.  His wife Christina Pereira was born in Trinidad on 8 April 1866, the eldest daughter of Presbyterian Portuguese immigrants.  Her father was João (anglicized John) Pereira from Portugal, and her mother was Antonia Alexandre, born in the  island of Madeira. Joseph and Christina were my father's maternal grandparents, my great-grandparents.  We are unsure of  the date of their marriage.  We keep searching and are hoping that we're getting closer!

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About Christina, we know that she  was the eldest girl in a family of six children.  Her siblings were (in chronological order) John, Mary, Andrew, George, and Joseph.  Of these, only Andrew and her sister Mary remained in Trinidad, while the others emigrated.  Mary Antoinette was also known as Marykin, and she married Albert Mendes.  This was the start of a family relationship and close friendship with the Mendes family that developed even deeper throughout the years.

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A land deed of 1887 in Joseph's name describes him as a Shopkeeper, Port of Spain; other documents throughout his life describe him as Clerk, Merchant, Manager and Draper.  The Miller's Public Supply Stores was one of the largest emporiums in Port of Spain established around 1835, when Irishman John Miller left his employment at Wilsons (a large cocoa and sugar agent) and started a business of his own.  The firm had a main building on Frederick Street, with branches in Princess Town and Arima.  Our Joseph Gomez became the Manager of their Arima branch.

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In 1888, we find Joseph and Christina living in Port of Spain, Trinidad where their first child was born on 26 May of that year.  This baby girl was Elsie Mabel, who was to become my paternal grandmother and matriarch of the large Sheppard family.  Between 1888 and 1905 Joseph and Christina had four sons and five daughters, the youngest of whom died when she was a baby.   It appears that Joseph and Christina were living at 12 Sorzanoville, Belmont, Laventille where their next three children - Audrey, Joseph and Edith were born. The family then lived in Arima around 1893 and where their home was on Guanapo Street. In July 1900 they lived in Queen Street, Arima. We know this from information on the birth certificates of their last four children.   Though we have no photographs, their daughter Ivy wrote a nostalgic poem called "To Arima" that paints a vivid picture of her  childhood home.  This is in a book of poems called Roses in the Rain, published by Ivy in 1976 when she was seventy-nine years old.

Joseph, Christina and their children all attended the joyful wedding of my grandmother Elsie to Charlie Sheppard in 1909.  It seems that by then they had  moved to nearby Sangre Grande where Joseph had started a business.  But barely two years after that beautiful family wedding at the Mendes family home at  Victoria Square,  their lives would change irrevocably. 

 

The New Year 1912 dawned with  the shocking news that Joseph had suffered a fatal stroke at his home.  Sunday 1st January 1912 must surely have been the darkest day of their lives for Christina and her children.   Joseph was just forty-seven years old and the widowed Christina was forty-five. 

 

The newspaper of 8 January describes the sad event.

Sheppard Family Archive

SUDDEN DEATH (Communicated) It is with deep regret we have to chronicle the death of the l

Here I must pause for a personal reflection on the adage "history repeats itself". 

Little did the widowed Christina know then that in 1931 her eldest daughter Elsie would also experience the unspeakable grief of losing of her husband Charlie when he was just forty-five.  Nor did my grandmother Elsie know that this would also befall two of her granddaughters.  In 1965, Kathleen Sheppard lost her husband suddenly when he was just twenty-eight, five days after the birth of their third daughter.  My own husband died suddenly at forty-five, leaving me a young widow with five children in 1984.  We know for sure that in times of grief and loss, it is our families who see us through the dark days - and so it must have been for our Christina over a hundred years ago.

As the years went by, the younger children continued their schooling and life carried on.  George, who was 15 years old when his father died, became an exceptional student, winning an Island Scholarship in 1916.  World War 1 had been declared in 1914 and young George enlisted to serve before starting his university education.  During those anxious war years the only communication was by letters that could take up to three months to arrive.   This poignant note from mother to son was discovered at the back of a photo mailed by Christina to George while he was in India with the Devonshire Regiment.

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In years to come, Christina in Trinidad would also learn of the untimely death of this son, Dr. George Gomez, on the island of St. Kitts when he was only  thirty-five.  More heartbreak for her and the family.

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Christina's father had died in 1902, but her mother Antonia lived to be eighty-one.  Having contracted pneumonia, she passed away at her home in Sangre Grande on 26 August, 1922.  A large number of family and friends attended her funeral, as reported in the Port of Spain Gazette of August 29, 1922. 

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Sadness enveloped the family once more that year when my grandmother's sister Audrey died in childbirth with her second child just two months after Antonia's death.  Courage, faith and the support of family saw them through the awful tragedy. 

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In her golden years, Grandma Christina Gomez lived in Wrightson Road, Port of Spain.  Her youngest daughter Ivy never married, neither did her son Vincent.  Vin and his sister Ivy, though they were both deaf, owned and operated The Rite Photo Studio, also in Wrightson Road.  Ivy lived with their mother and together they raised Audrey's son Wilfred.  Grandma Christina Gomez lived to be eighty-three and knew several of her grandchildren.  Hers was a loving, motherly life of resilience.

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FOUR GENERATIONS -circa 1911

l/r The Matriarch Antonia (Alexandre) Pereira, born in Porto Moniz, Madeira, Portugal, 1840

Jessie (Sheppard) Brash, her great-grandaughter

Christina (Pereira) Gomez, her daughter,

Elsie (Gomez) Sheppard her granddaughter, my grandmother

The two widows are wearing dresses of traditional black, Christina having recently lost her husband

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Christina Gomez née Pereira

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Two Gomez sisters Audrey (left) and Edith.  Centre is Edith's husband, Thomas McCartney

The Children of Joseph & Christina

Many Thanks to Jessie (Hendry) Tamas , Brian Franco, Jenny (Franco) McNamara and other family members for their valued contributions to this story.

 

~ Valerie Sheppard

1 August, 2021

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